come, other's go.  a lot of things stick around and you barely pay enough attention for them to be worth anything to you.  this is what we call 'taking it for granted.'  but who's to say we aren't born with (varying) degrees of innate entitlement to one thing or another.  i said varying..so don't even think about arguing.  some people don't deserve a thing they have in their lives, others deserve way more than they're given.  we call <- that being 'dealt a bad hand.'  i'm fortunate!  why? because i have a lot of good things and people in my life? sure.  but moreso because i have fallen quite gently into the karmatic stream.  if i do something bad..my universe corrects itself to compensate.. if i hold my tongue, people may one day down the road speak well of me.  if i bury my hands in my pockets, there is often a hug waiting for me sometime in the future.  but it's not just hoping for the future.. sometimes i am given something without ask for return..but something--the current-- urges me to pay that kindess forward, or even back. so, the little reservations i make seem to keep things moving smoothly for me, but time and space scold me for my wrong doings--i can't be upset with that.
--a farce: only infuriating if you don't see it coming